Do you want a relationship but keep avoiding dating? Are you in a long term relationship and hiding your insecurities from your partner? Are you in a new relationship and avoiding intimacy due to fear and anxiety?
I can help.
Fear and anxiety around sex can completely remove any enjoyment and pleasure and lead to an incredibly frustrating love life. I’m here to help you reshape your relationship to sex and intimacy and help you build lasting organic confidence and connection.
At first, it just feels like you’re not quite ready yet.
But underneath, there’s a quiet tension that appears the moment things could get sexual - whether that’s with someone new, your long-term partner or in a more complex dynamic.
You hesitate, hold back. You find reasons to delay, distract or avoid. You tell yourself you will be ok when you feel more ‘ready’.
From the outside you might seem confident, capable, in control. But privately, it feels safer to avoid sex than to risk the anxiety that comes with it. Maybe you experience erection issues, early/delayed ejaculation, overthinking, addictions, body issues - I’ve worked with men with a variety of issues.
This is not failure. This is not weakness. This is avoidance driven by fear.
And it can be fixed.
WHAT NO ONE SEES…
WHY CONFIDENCE, DATING ADVICE & THERAPY HAVEN’T CHANGED THIS.
You may have tried working on yourself, building confidence, reading books, watching content or even therapy.
Some of it probably helped you understand yourself better. None of it changed the pattern.
That is because confidence is not the root problem.
A lack of tactics is not the root problem.
Not having had enough therapy is not the root problem.
Fear of sexual intimacy is.
I KNOW THIS PATTERN BECAUSE IT USED TO RUN MY LIFE.
I understand this problem because I lived it. From the outside, things looked fine.
Inside, fear made intimacy - with a partner, a new connection or even in long term relationships - feel risky, even when I wanted closeness and connection.
I searched for help and could not find anyone addressing this directly. So I invested time, money, and energy into figuring out what actually works.
Not theory. Not motivation. Not surface level fixes.
What changed things was addressing fear directly through real-world action, in a short timeline, in a way that felt safe, contained and effective.
That is the work I do now - helping men overcome sexual performance anxiety, regain confidence in the bedroom and reconnect to intimacy, no matter their relationship situation.
I have spent the last two years studying men and male sexuality and have already helped many men. I am a qualified Men’s Sex Coach with the International Institute of Complementary Therapists and I take part in continuing professional development every year.
THIS IS WHERE THE USUAL APPROACHES QUIETLY FAIL:
This is not therapy. It is not dating advice. It is not confidence coaching.
This is a focused, behaviour-led process designed to reduce fear where it actually lives - in the body, in the mind, and in sexual situations.
We work on a short timeline because fear survives in open-ended processes.
Progress is measured by what you actually do - not how much you understand yourself. Action is the proof.
The goal is not to manage fear. The goal is to remove its grip so intimacy - whether new, long term or complex - feels natural and achievable again.
How it works :
The length of the working relationship is decided by you. I recommend 3 months for a deep transformation but we work on a month to month basis with no fixed commitment. Some men find 1 months work is enough. We will work out what suits your unique situation as we go. The cost per month is £400.
What You Get Inside The Programme :
DIRECT, PERSONALISED GUIDANCE TAILORED TO YOUR SITUATION :
No generic advice. Everything is built around how you experience pressure, anxiety, and intimacy.
TARGETED WEEKLY ASSIGNMENTS :
Practical, real-world exercises designed to help you break patterns, rebuild confidence, and create change between sessions.
4 × 1:1 COACHING SESSIONS PER MONTH (45 MINUTES PER SESSION VIA ZOOM)
A structured process designed to take you from understanding → control → confidence:
Session 1: Deep Dive : We identify exactly what’s driving your anxiety, patterns, and triggers.
Sessions 2–4: Transformation Phase : We work through the mental, emotional, and behavioural blocks that are holding you back, replacing pressure and overthinking with control, presence, and confidence. This is where everything shifts.
Bonus Session (after work is completed) : Integration & Forward Plan : Lock in your progress and ensure this becomes your new normal.
DIRECT ACCOUNTABILITY :
So you actually follow through - not just understand the problem.
ONGOING SUPPORT VIA WHATSAPP :
Access to me between sessions when things come up in real time.
TOOLS, FRAMEWORKS AND RESOURCES :
So you’re not relying on willpower, you have a clear method to fall back on.
